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What about church
"Youth" programs?
Churches are encountering a growing number of families who
question the validity of separating children from the larger church community.
These parents, many of whom are home schooling their children, believe that such
“children’s programs” perpetuate the problems of peer-driven groupings
experienced by both public and private schools and increasingly manifested as a
dominant influence in society.
The following set of questions are intended to help
churches develop a biblical position which address both the parent’s concerns
and the church’s corporate needs The underlying assumption is that both parents
and church leaders have a commitment to maintaining unity and to finding a
biblical foundation for resolving these issues. The order of questions reflects
no particular priority.
- Can church leaders articulate a distinctly
biblical basis for the structure and content of children’s programs? If not,
what is the foundation for such programs?
- How does the church view its relationship to
families, i.e., as a unit or as separate individuals? Are families
encouraged to participate as families? Are there opportunities for such
participation?
- Do children’s programs enhance or undermine the
unity of the family and the parent’s leadership position?
- Has the church leadership directly discussed these
issues with parents? How has the church attempted to address their concerns?
- Do members have a “covenant” relationship with the
church which provides a basis for calling members to serve and for members
holding leaders accountable? If not, what is the basis for expecting members
participation and how are leaders held accountable?
- What is the purpose of children’s programs, e.g.,
to prepare children for full participation in the church as quickly as
possible? Do the church’s programs achieve this goal or do they perpetuate
the peer-driven youth subculture within the church?
- What criteria are used to determine when a child
is ready to participate in the adult service? Who makes this determination;
the parent or church leaders? Are children “expected” and encouraged to
leave the children’s program at some point or do they remain until they are
“out of school?”
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